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Don’t want to get too close to my new friend

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Honeyandlemonnn · 23/12/2021 22:57

I’ve met this girl about 3 times through one of those mummy apps, we have gone out together in public with our sons. And I’m finding her very strange based on little things she’s mentioned . She’s a nice girl but I’m sensing an addictive personality. She’s seems very clingy , always wanting to text me , call me , now she wants to come over to my house . I don’t feel like I trust her. I don’t feel comfortable bringing someone into my house who I don’t know very well. Also I like my own space . I have many friends who I see and communicate with but I don’t feel the need to communicate with them everyday or see them all the time . I just feel like this is getting abit too deep for me . I really went on the app to look for casual friendships where we can bond over our children and go to fun activities . I wasn’t Expecting a best friend type of relationship . I don’t want that. I don’t want to get any closer to her , but I don’t want to hurt her . Any advice

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dumplings1 · 23/12/2021 23:07

I would keep saying you're busy or just don't reply everyday, she will soon get the hint you don't communicate all the time.

I had this last year with a new friend who at the beginning contacted me numerous times a day until I stopped replying, she now only contacts once in a while.

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