Hey guys
34/F matched with 36/M
Met on Bumble but actually he went to School with a friend from Uni
Met him about four five weeks ago
Normal chat - Nil red flags
Met for coffee about a month ago, then the next weekend went a walk with his dog, weekend after that went for dinner and he paid, on Sunday there went a walk with the dog again!
Text message wise he is OK between dates - 50/50 initiation
Nil conversation about going forwards
We have not even kissed or touched
He seems very shy
He seperated from his wife last year - they now live apart, but co share his dog. My friends ans I have trolled instagram and nil wedding ring on finger since he said he split. BUT he has told one lie about how long they have lived apart. He told me in was last September, but it was this March 2021.
He says split was amicable and they should never have got married. Seems fairly civil on social media - nil recent photos together and she has apparently met someone else.
I asked him on date 3 about divorce going forward and he said they will be speaking with lawyers in due course.
Few things that are making me unsteady
- Nil kiss or touching? Am I just used to fuckbois and is this how normal respectful men date
- is it normal for delay in divorce like this? I feel a bit unsettled he is still married but it all seems kosher. They have split.
Any advice going forward?
End of 4th date I asked if he wanted to see me again after Christmas and he was like ‘Yeah definately’ but STILL no kiss!