I’m very friendly with one of the males I work with. I work with 95% men. I’m single and so is this particular male. We are late 30’s. He’s very atttractive and from the day I’ve met him we’ve got on super well. We hooked up on different nights out, mostly kissing etc but it went a bit further approx a year ago. Anytime I’ve been intimate he seems to have an issue getting it up. we’re in touch a fair bit via text/snap/sending daft instagram memes. I thought he might like me as one of the times we got together he said he was jealous of other men I mentioned and he said he had never met anyone like me. Anyways went for Christmas drinks and we had a fair bit to drink and I told him not to be weird with me again ( we didn’t communicate for over a month after last time getting together) and he basically said that he’s never had an issue getting it up with anyone before that and not since it either. He also said he thought I was being weird with him since the last time we hooked up. I don’t think I was but wasn’t in contact with him. When I saw him at work I was friendly as always. That night was crap and I tried every trick in the book to help him along with no success!!!🥴 he basically said he saw me as a buddy and that we’d always be the best of friends. I work with him and obviously i/we don’t cross the line at work. Not that it matters but I get told a lot I’m good looking and I do get a fair bit of male attention. I’m just embarrassed that he thinks crap of me really or doesn’t see me the same way. And that he doesn’t have an issue with any other female only me. How do I regain my dignity after being basically told by him he doesn’t want me? I’m embarrassed and hurt but I can hide that hopefully!!