I’m divorced and haven’t had much luck since I decided I’d like to meet someone new. I had a string of online disasters followed by an 18 month relationship which nearly destroyed me when he ended it without explanation.
It took me well over a year to get back on my feet then I had a few dates which didn’t go anywhere but I’ve recently met someone more promising. We’ve taken it very slowly, had a few dates but kept in touch in between. This weekend it moved to the next level.
I actually like him much more than I expected to and he seems very keen but in a pleasant realistic way not stupid lovebombing or anything like that. Trouble is the minute it starts to mean something i start overthinking everything and risk completely messing up something potentially good. Does anyone have any advice on how to keep it in proportion and not risk either of us getting hurt?