Can you forgive him for this?

[sweetpopcorn86]

What's something you can never forgive your partner/ex partner for?

I’d never forgive someone for cheating.

And my ex, I’ll never forgive him for putting cocaine above his family.

You go first.

Telling me that my Mum would be dead soon so that I would be ok for money. We were in the middle of a divorce & my mum was terminally ill. He was trying to justify why I shouldn't get my half of the house!

My ex snagging my mate whist our 3 month old slept in the next room. All whilst I was out slaving on a building site trying to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table.

Shagging not snogging not snagging... never fails to amaze me how dated this platform is that won't let you edit a post.

….. ?????

forgetting to move the damn elf last night.

Marrying me when he knew he was gay.

Telling me to stop being silly when I said I’d nearly jumped off the balcony when I was suffering from post parting psychosis. Absolutely minimising to everyone quite how badly I was struggling and telling me that I didn’t need professional help. It was only when I did an Alan Partridge and drove back to my mum’s house at the other end of the country in my socks that I got the help that saved my life. It took me years to realise that I couldn’t forgive him for it before we eventually split.

For not letting me eat the chocolate biscuits I bought for Christmas early.

Being my Maid of Honour but not telling me the secrets you knew about the Man I was marrying.

Keeping a big family secret from me until the involved parties were dead, leaving me feeling that my relationship with one of them had been an utter lie, and never having the opportunity to confront it myself.

Basically anyone who chooses to keep things from me 'for my own good' as if I can't decide what my own good is

Oh; I missed the 'partner/ex-partner' part of the OP

As you were.

I can’t forgive me ex for getting together with my friend and next door neighbour within weeks of our 18.5 year relationship breaking down. The fact that I had to live next door to her for 4 months until she moved almost caused me a full mental breakdown.

Lying / cheating / being abusive / absent / generally being a twat.

Telling me he'd never been in love with me after 5 years together.

For cheating over and over again and down playing it, making me think it was partly my fault.
For never prioritising his children.
For telling our son he just didn't like him.
For trying to starve me and the children out of the family home (he succeeded - we move next month 😞).
For being the most selfish human being on the planet.
For not being the dad our amazing children deserve.