I don't stay up to date with what goes on in my ex's life but on fb today saw he had got married through a mural friends post. I found it really hard to get over the relationship but it was 4 years ago and I'm glad to say I didn't feel anything really when I saw the pics. But enough to post on here because I just can't believe the audacity of men sometimes! So he cheated on me with her but tried to cheat on her with me quite a few times about a year and 2 years after we split. The last time we spoke was during the first lockdown when I think he was trying to see if I was still with my new partner and I shut him down. Before this he was actively trying to cheat trying to ask for a meet up which I refused to trying to tempt me with a bottle to champagne he could bring round! In that first year I was so heartbroken I would of definitely met up with him, but it was too late when he contacted me and I'd done the work! I am so relieved!
Anyway, he is what he is and she has decided to marry him. Poor her! He even told me he himself was scum so I think he knows he will always try to cheat.
No point to this post other than I wanted to write down my thoughts as I don't fancy bringing this up with friends in real life. I am gutted I have many leftover scars from that relationship and that I have a completely loving partner now who is completely different character, a better man and I push him away and keep my boundaries up. I'm hopeful I can work on this.