I need some help

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I've just realised I'm being emotionally abused and wondered if there's any support out there. Currently sat here with alot in my mind and confused.

Maybe report your post and have it moved to the relationships board.

AIBU can be brutal, you are more likely to get some practical advice and support there - there are lots of posters who can advise you better than in AIBU.

If you use a search engine you will find lots of information relevant to where you live. For example

www.crisistextline.org/topics/emotional-abuse/
www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help
www.relate.org.uk/relationship-help/help-relationships/arguing-and-conflict/what-emotional-abuse
www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/
www.counselling-directory.org.uk/emotional-abuse.html
www.melanietoniaevans.com/articles/are-you-being-abused.htm

Do you want to talk about it some more? What is happening? Do you have any friends in RL that you could talk to?

I don't feel I can tell most people I know. I have told a close friend but I feel like I need someone who can explain more to me. I feel so confused. I've sent a text to a page called shout buy not sure how long until theyl be free as it says they are in high demand.

He goes through highs and lows in his own life and mind. When he's low he verbally attacks me if he can't handle things. I've done alot to help him. Too much to mention. Financially, physically and personally. I've been worried about him recently because I know he's suffering. He has called me pathetic, a c u n t, asked me if I have a learning disability. He's called me paranoid and offered to say things in a different language to make me understand. This was just this last few days.

He blames me and says its my fault for how I behave. He has punished me with silent treatment and blocked all contact. Then unlocked me to request money. I've been paying for his food and things and chasing up his problems that he won't deal with himself. In return he's told me he's done with me because I am a nightmare and keep hurting him. I never listen and keep repeating the same mistakes.

This is a small a small snippet of the last 15 months.

Are you married OP?
Do you have children?
Do you rent?

Because this is a seriously abusive man and you do not deserve this treatment

He blocks all contact. Does that mean you don't live together?

No children.
Don't live together.
It's his own problems he's projecting onto me. But I know how wrong it is

It's very wrong but the answer, though painful is easy. Muster all your self-respect Stop giving him money, block him on everything and live your life well. Good luck.

Have you posted about him before?

Why would you tolerate this?

Women's aid might help.

You do not have to accept this.