Just having a mini crisis in the confidence of my decision making.
Met what I thought was a lovely man about 3 weeks ago- had several dates where we got on really well. Loved his personality/values/looks and things seemed quite positive. He was really keen - probably too keen but I decided to try and go with it and not be too jaded.
Anyway Saturday I met him at work and he was drunk and I didn't like the person he was. He also drove home drunk and I'm not talking maybe a pint over the limit but lots.
I told him that was it for me - it's a big deal and he'd admitted to me he'd already been charged for drunk driving back when he was younger so shows he doesn't learn. He keeps saying it was only one mistake but I think it's a huge one to do.
I've made the right decision to end things haven't I? He keeps saying that I obviously didn't feel the way he does about me for me to end it so abruptly and I've said that at only 3 weeks in we're still learning things about each other and either of us would be entitled to end it at any point?!
I just feel like the last couple of men I've had relationships with haven't worked out due to different reasons and I'm starting to doubt my own judgement.