Leave “ok” for more?

[LondonLife3]

At a crossroads, been with my partner around 18 months, over all we are happy but there’s no romance never has been it’s really more like friends on both sides, we do get on very well. He’s very loyal and loves spending time with me..
I’m 32 he’s now 44 so he’s happy with the way things are..
I don’t know if I’m better off leaving to hopefully find something more, but after years of online dating I know it’s horrible out there..

I'd rather be single than settle for hum drum. I've been dating/single for over 2 years now and while dating is different now, I've definitely had fun!! Would have this any day over what you describe in your relationship. Imagine your self in 5/10 years with him?

Leave.

He’s very loyal and loves spending time with me

If this is the only quality about him you rate, then you should definitely leave. At 18 months in, you should think he's the most fabulous man you know, otherwise in 5 years, you'll be bored, miserable and prone to a wandering eye.

If you feel like this 18 months in, how do you think you will feel in another 18 months?

He's 12 years older than you, no wonder you are bored shitless!

Go out and have fun!