Dh and I seperated in the summer as a result of quite rubbish behaviour on his part, combined with his general lack of interest in me and family life.
We have been getting along better and he has told me he loves me and wants to try again.
I still love him deeply, but have definitely lost trust in him.
I am also having serious doubts about him keeping up his 'good" behaviour.
He has moved out and is moving somewhere suitable to have the dc early next year.
He has said he doesn't want to do this and wants to come home.
I feel that this is more to do with the expense/inconvenience of moving from where he is living.
I still have doubts as to whether it is me he misses, or the cushy family life he messed up whereby I did far too much wife work and he lived his own life.
I am so torn as to what to do.
I have told him I think him getting his own suitable place is the right option, as I would want to see long term change and couldn't risk letting him back in the house, only for things to go back to how they were.
Am I mad for even entertaining us sorting this out with so much water under the bridge?