My partner (27 M) and I (25 F) have been going out for 1.5 years and live together in France. However he has just broken up with me rather suddenly, leaving me having to think about alternative housing and perhaps a new job too. I don't know how best to handle the situation.
Everything was going well between us until his job put him up for a post working abroad for a year. He's a home bird and was quite scared by the idea of being away from friends and family, however he said he'd like me to consider coming with him and was quite persistent in asking me.
Fast forward a week and he goes on a trekking weekend with friends, comes back and says that he doesn't picture a future with anything (jobs, flats, relationships) and has trouble staying still for too long. He says it's something he has booked to see a therapist about, but he feels bad making me wait around to see if the therapy does or does not work. He is besides himself for 3 days saying he's loved me like his first love, before ultimately deciding to end it. We had to live in the same flat for a week before my trip home, which was incredibly bittersweet and there were a lot of tears on both sides.
He is convinced that we will meet again, saying that he still loves me and he'll call when he's finished therapy. I don't know how to move on: he said he didn't want to have me hanging on, but this is doing exactly that...
Any help or life experience is much appreciated!