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Can you be confident and insecure

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Gempeatea · 12/12/2021 21:14

So I had a marriage breakdown a few years ago and a short term relationship break down at the end of the year, now I feel I pretty much healed (both went of with someone else so you can imagine my thoughts about men). Now though I have this fabulous man who I can safely say has let me heal more by being with him, he goes against my past experiences, he's loyal, fun, does what he says he's going to do, empathic and has been at my side when my relationship anxiety has kicked in and I have gone down overthinking rabbit holes, he takes me as I am and is just "him". But still I have bouts of not feeling good enough even though.... drives me potty. Has any one else experienced this after a breakup....xx

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TheFoundations · 12/12/2021 21:19

Not feeling good enough for what? For the relationship, or generally, within yourself?

Gempeatea · 13/12/2021 07:22

I'm not sure I think for the relationship, I know I'm a decent person and am quite confident but I think because I've been "left" for other women in the past I wonder what's wrong with me to make men leave so I think this still resonates with me now xx although I don't get the feeling he will so this its still something that goes around in my head

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