Bf issues

[kittydreams]

My bf refused to marry me when I suggested saying- No words. Of course I can marry you. It's very easy. I ended up telling him to forget the marriage and he didnt seem to be uspet or something

I also feel he pulled back because he didn't talk to me 2 days and even left me on seen when we normally talk every day and just eventually skip 1 day. I told him I worry am gonna get ghosted and he asked why is that but idk? Sometimes he is online but doesn't even seen my messages. (He does that when busy but combined with other things make me believe he isn't interested in me)

He asked about a gift I bought and he understood about it he said it's alright.

I'm struggling to make any sense of your OP but he's right. You should not be talking about marriage here. You sound very young...?

I am not from English speaking country so I apologise for the grammar

@kittydreams

I am not from English speaking country so I apologise for the grammar

It is t really just the grammar. Your first sentence makes no sense at all, in fact it is contradictory. He refused to marry you but somebody said of course I will marry you and then there is “no words”. Honestly, it makes no sense. I would try re writing the first post.

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And what does the last sentence mean??

Well.... I think he refused by saying that cos he said he can but not that he wants!

I'm confused.

Join the club.

If you are Indian (which I assume you are from your username referencing kitty in a wedding context) then the advice here isn't going to be terribly useful.

How old are you, my dear?

What makes you so sure he is the one for you?

Of course everyone is welcome but I think genuinely people will struggle to give you good advice that is helpful!

I am not Indian.

My boyfriend told me that he can marry me which is odd....he didn't say the words want. That means he doesn't want to marry me

I am in my 20s.

He said he can marry me as he is able to. But didn't say he wants

Then he didn't talk to me for 2 days and even left me on seen. He talks to me again but I worry he lost interest
I told him I was worried that I am getting ghosted

Well it sounds like he doesn't want to marry you right now.

I'm sure he'll be perfectly happy to keep being your boyfriend for a while, as long as you don't ask him to marry you again.

But really you need to decide how you feel about all of this, for example being ignored for a couple of days.

I doubt he is that special really.

How long have you been in a relationship?

But he didn't refuse to marry you. He said he "can marry you. It's easy".
Is something getting lost in translation here? Is he a native speaker of the same language as you? Because if you both have different first languages it's quite easy for misunderstandings to occur.

However, it doesn't really sound like a relationship which is ready for marriage yet. You aren't living together. It doesn't even sound like you see each other that much as your post is all about chatting online etc.
I feel like you might have pushed the issue of marriage too early.

But if you feel he isn't interested in you and isn't committed to you, then end it with him and find someone who does want the same things as you.

You need a new boyfriend.