Today I found a condom wrapper in the spare bedroom. Definitely no mine, nor my DD (he is not yet a teenager) so, just leaves one answer right? Of course he has denied it, the usual gaslighting no idea where is came from etc etc. I was away Friday night so I am assuming it happened then. He has form for cheating and not admitting it (last time took several years before I got the truth). I know I should LTB but, financially I am stuck. We rent and I can't afford the rent alone even with maintenance from him. Nor can I afford to rent another property nearby, unless a house share which obviously is not a choice with my DS. No family nearby it's a mess. No idea who this person he cheated with is and to be honest that doesn't matter to me because, she isn't the first. I thought we were in a good place, it's such a mess.