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Do you think I’ll never hear from him again?

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Hrrrre · 05/12/2021 09:15

Just as the title says really. We had a great relationship. I got unwell for a week in hospital, he cared for me and then I came out and was still fragile for a week. A couple of weeks later things were back to normal but he was distant, said he’d found that week hard and now things were on top of him with work. I could see how, as he’d had to finish early a few days during that week I was unwell etc. But he’d also become vague with me it was really upsetting. I said I’d leave him to it and I loved him but he clearly needed to reflect on things.

It’s been a couple of months and I’ve not heard a thing from him. I am certain he hadn’t met someone in that time but I guess he could have done now. I can’t understand it. I never wanted a break up but don’t feel I can or should chase someone who cares this little. I loved him very very much though. Do you think it’s unlikely he will ever be in touch?

OP posts:
Nov910 · 06/12/2021 22:09

My ex was like this. It’s not you..it’s him. That old clichè I know but it’s true. These men don’t have emotional intelligence and panic/sulk because they aren’t capable of dealing with changes or something they don’t want to do.
Mine ended oddly after a 5 yr relationship, it’s been a month of him ignoring my last message about hi collecting his stuff. Fine, his stuff, his loss. Childish and sad but least you know who he really is and can find a better person in the future x

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