I thought I’d met the love of my life this year. He started going distant in Autumn, we rowed about it. I kept asking him to talk to me and I was supportive (I think), saying whatever was wrong we could fix it and I was here for him etc etc. He said he felt stressed with work and parents (they’re much older and need lots of support). I offered to help in any way I could. He was still cold with me.
I said I couldn’t continue like this and that I loved him but without any effort on his part to let me in, I needed to leave. So I did. I’ve heard nothing from him. It’s been over a month.
I really really loved him. Some of the best moments of my life were with him. I don’t know how to move on. I can’t really understand or believe it’s happened…he was declaring love and a future with me only a week prior to the break up. I don’t think I will recover from this, after years of dating and break ups, I really didn’t think this would end.