Anytime I mention meeting family or friends or going away, I get vague vague vague. The headline from him is ‘I can’t wait to do these things, I don’t know when as I’m busy.’
He has a busy job but his colleagues manage to do these things as he tells me!!
We are only a few months in (8) so I don’t want to be pushy but we are also not kids and are in our thirties (he’s late 30s!). I feel like at this point he should be wanting to do these things together. I was hoping we’d move in sometime next year if all went well!! I don’t feel I can raise that when we’ve not done any of these other things…
I’ve raised it and asked why he’s vague, we had an argument about it recently but all I get is vague answers like yes at some point and of course I want to share these rings with you… then he says I am making it stressful if I push it. His friends and family know about me and we see each other loads so it’s confusing as to why he won’t do these practical things together that in my mind would strengthen and develop the relationship. But like I say I don’t want to be pushy. Never been in this situation before, usually it all just happens…