Husband affair

[Underscore83]

Hey I'm new here and need some advice.

Found out last month my husband is having a. 3 month affair...no sex but meeting after work kissing and dirty texts.
He works very closely with her in a hard job which is shifts and they are on same section.

He promised me it was over and no more contact.
I've seen his phone bill and is still in contact with her by phone pretty regularly...he hasn't said he's met up yet as I haven't confrontee him about phone bill.

We've got a 7 year old been together 12 years married 7.
She's 10 years younger then me no kids and married.

Can a marriage survive or because of betrayal is it done.
I have noone to turn too for advice

What an absolute cunt. You poor poor thing. But also you will survive this. Do you have family support?

Everyone is different. For me the only way to get past it with the relationship still in tact would be if he was completely open and honest when I first found out. To find out he was still in contact would be the final blow and I'd not be able to get past it. He's had his one chance and blew it.

My, now exdh had what I thought was an emotional affair, I stayed with him for 3 years to try and rebuild our marriage. I found out after the 3 years that they had had sex, several times. The was the final nail for me

I’d contact her and ask for details.

They work together op. If you were to give your husband another chance, can’t imagine you’re every going to feel at ease if they continue to have regular contact. It’ll eat you up xx so sorry op xx you deserve so much better xx

Yeah you can't move past it if he's still messaging her and lying about it.

Did you confront him, OP?