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My partner is acting different

30 replies

marvmaise · 26/11/2021 11:15

Back story my partner has cheated on me previously at the very start of our relationship and I took him back.
Fast forward today, my partner couldn't come home from the army this weekend after hardly seeing him this month I was upset, and I was just asking him simple questions in convo like what days are you working this weekend, and he phoned me accusing me that I thought he was lying about working?!
Now this morning I just tried to FaceTime him as I got a notification saying he viewed a video I sent him so I assumed he was awake, and needed to show him something to do with babies bed and some advice and he messaged me instead and I said why did you cancel my ft I was trying to show you something lol and he went off saying I don't need to FaceTime him, I'm starting on him and I can just take a video, that I woke him up by calling him.
He's acting like I'm trying to catch him out and I've literally got no idea what's going on or why?! Has anyone been through something like this?

OP posts:
Saysama · 26/11/2021 16:02

He cheated on you, is rude to you, behaves dodgily and forbids you from following him on social media.

Why are you with this person?

me4real · 26/11/2021 16:45

im not allowed to follow him on social media after we broke up the first time

@marvmaise You're not allowed to follow him, after he cheated? Shock

I had one that was a bit like that. He was a wanker.

Dery · 26/11/2021 16:49

Sorry - you have a baby with this guy but you’re not allowed to follow him on social media!?!? That makes no sense at all.

Dery · 26/11/2021 16:56

And yes - he's acting an awful lot like he's got something to hide. Sounds like he's either not where he says he is or not doing what he claims to be doing.

You mentioned the baby's bed. Do you have a very young baby together? Rather than cheating on you, do you think he could be running away from the rather challenging demands of early parenthood? That's completely wrong also but a different problem from him cheating on you.

cakecakecheese · 26/11/2021 21:53

He isn't treating you with anywhere near enough respect. Do you have a friend or relative you can talk to? You need some support.

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