I don't quite know what to do. Can't speak to friends as intrinsiquently linked.. me and DH have been married 7 years. No kids. Sexlife isn't great, figured we were just getting old. I had noticed on a few occasions DH staying up later than me, which is odd as we normally go to sleep together. He did this last weekend and I caught sight of his phone the next day. Checking history, He was on adultwebsites, video chat sites - having adult camera chats. I felt sick and didn't see it coming. Not quite sure how to handle ( He doesn't know I know) Advice welcome. This is as good as cheating, right?