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Lie detector results

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blahblahblah12345678910 · 23/11/2021 22:54

Before I begin I'm aware this sounds very Jeremy Kyle Show but I'm looking for genuine responses please. Boyfriend went away for work course in March when I was 2 months pregnant, I later found various messages on his phone. Two to a work colleague about 'perving' on women and one conversation consisting of two messages; 'I'm half an hour away from the hotel xx' and then his response, 'Ok babe xx'. Initially when I confronted them he reacted really badly and snatched the phone off me and deleted the messages. His explanation was that it had been banter between him and a male work colleague which I obviously did not believe. I broke it off with him but he begged for me back and said he would do a lie detector test. For various reasons this was only done yesterday. My three questions were; 1. Was the text message (about the hotel) really to a male colleague, 2. Did you intend to have sexual relations with anyone and 3. Did you have sexual relations with anyone. He failed the first question and admitted that it was a women he met on the course but he is just saying everyone exchanged numbers and he doesn't know why she text him. The second question about intentions on sexual relations he got 57 on, which is technically a pass meaning that he didn't have any intentions. The third question he passed with nearly 100. Our baby is 1 month old now. I'm just not sure what to do.

OP posts:
Skeumorph · 24/11/2021 17:24

You must know he cheated.

I would break up with him, but I know easier said than done.

Do you have support?

x

Crystalvas · 24/11/2021 18:16

If your gut is feeling is that somethings not right, it is’t. Always trust your gut. The fact that you still feel somethings dodgy means there is. Remember OP despite the test he’ll only tell you what he thinks you already know or what he might get away with.

Raymondello · 03/01/2023 12:05

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Twen · 03/01/2023 15:31

Oh god no just no. This is ridiculous. £400, lie detectors, cheating?! He's not worth another minute of your time. LTB honestly you won't regret it.

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