Uncomfortable discovery on his iPad

[Blueagate]

Hi all, I just asking for your views on this. Was in very long term relationship, but not cohabiting. I finished it when I found teen porn on his iPad. I’d suspected he was using porn, but was shi

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How old is he?

Have you finished the post OP?

We need some more details, OP. I don't know what teen porn is. So hard to tell a woman's age with/ without makeup. Most actresses are slim and shave everything below so they do look immature, if that's a good word. I suspect most " normal porn" features teenagers, certainly 18 and 19 year-olds. Did they look underage? If they're underage then consent doesn't factor in and yes, that has to be a red line. And if he was hiding it then you would always be wondering what his real tastes actually were. Sorry you went though this.

Hi all, I’m just seeking your views on this one as I am no longer with this man. A few years back, when he was mid-50’s. I discovered porn on his iPad. I had suspected he was using it, but was shocked to see that the women involved were about 19 or 20. Possibly 18, but not illegal. Still, it felt ‘icky’ to me. To defend himself, he gave me his personal journal so I could see that there was nothing untoward about him. There was nothing about the porn in there, in fact there was nothing much to read, except that I came across an entry written a few years earlier (he would have been about 48 then) and before I got together with him. He describes an encounter with a female who served him, and who he described as a young and very attractive sales assistant. She would have been 18+ as that chain store doesn’t employ anyone younger (alcohol). He implied in the next sentence that he was going to forget it because (and he wrote it as a list), she knew his age, she had his credit card details, she could find out where he lived etc. There was nothing about him knowing her age, or anything else, and clearly he didn’t act on it, but I felt really uncomfortable and dumped him straightaway. I’ve never told my 27 year old daughter or anyone else. I was in shock I guess. But something this week reminded me of it, and despite moving on, I still feel icky when I recalled it. What do you think?