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I don’t know how to date!

3 replies

RainLol · 21/11/2021 20:52

Didn’t know how to title my problem….

So, let me get this out of the way.
I’m an adult virgin.
I don’t have much dating expirience and I have reached the point where I am painfully lonely and I don’t want to go through my whole life not being loved or having not loved someone.

But I don’t necessarily want conventional relationship:
I would like to slowly get to know each other, start liking each other maybe fall in love and then maybe sex will follow.
And if it doesn’t that okey too, at least we got each other.
I’m not dead-againts sex, it just doesn’t hold any value or importance to me.

Is this a pipe story?
I am aware sex is important to many people, personally don’t understand why, but I’m afraid I will regret if I don’t at least try.
I really want to know and expirience love at least once in my life.
I think I’m worthy a try, even if sex maybe/probably won't be a part of it. I don’t know.

I just don’t how to go about this.

OP posts:
reasysteady · 24/11/2021 16:57

Do you think you might be asexual?

I think someone on here mentioned there is a sub-Reddit board for asexuals.

I personally only have sex with guys I have some feelings/attraction for. I wouldn't see the point otherwise so I can see your dilemma, it would be hard to date if sex was off the table completely.

category12 · 24/11/2021 18:34

How old are you?

Do you have no sex drive at all? Do you not experience arousal?

Have you tried to date?

Saysama · 25/11/2021 03:21

There are asexual dating apps. Perhaps try those? You are worthy of love and there is nothing wrong with feeling as you do. Please don’t doubt that.

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