To cut a long story short, met a guy on a night out. He came home with me, we had a good time. We were texting and he was very keen. I saw him again the following week and he stayed over at mine again. Since that night, he has been very cool and not messaging as much. He is nowhere near as keen as he was.
I’ve been overthinking it and going round and round in circles in my head about what happened. I wasn’t getting much from him so I decided to just bite the bullet and ask him if he fancied going for a drink tomorrow night. He said that he couldn’t, that he had a busy week and was busy tomorrow, Thursday, Friday and Saturday. But he never suggested another date though.
I am completely torn on what to do. Part of me wants to just forget it- waiting for him to message is causing me enough anxiety- and I think he’s basically rejected me.
The other part of me wants to reply to him (he did ask me how my week was going but I don’t think he really cares to be honest) as maybe there is another chance to meet up. But surely, if he was keen and wanted to meet up in whatever capacity, he would say something on the message??
I am so confused and sad. Any advice?