So.. had a very on/off relationship with my DD's dad for a while now. A few months ago I called time on the relationship (messaging other women, drinking, drugs...) believe it or not for what it's worth, he has a very good job, very senior/professional and isn't all bad. But I'm only human so I walked away to clear my head. It's come to light, as I doing evidence and he has admitted he is using drugs occasionally (including crack) - he isn't a bad dad - but clearly lacks complete understanding of what is morally right and wrong as a parent. I just don't know what to do? I can't let me DD stay the night on her own at weekends as I don't trust he won't always have her in a secure/safe environment. How do I handle this? Officially worn down..... She loves her dad x