Hi never posted here before but my Fiancé of 2 years been together for 12 has been starting arguments a lot lately lashing out over insignificant things reacting negatively over everything
I feel like I can’t say anything because he will react negatively to anything I say.
I’ve just started a new job as the manager of a Café and am getting it ready to open atm and he’s shown no interest and when I tell him things he’ll belittle what I’m doing. He’s constantly bickering with our 12 year old daughter I have told him that he should be picking his fights otherwise he’ll be there all day but he doesn’t listen it’s like he has to have control over everyone and everything and only what he thinks is right
He doesn’t like me going out if I don’t check in with him enough he will ring ring me constantly and then will not talk to me the next day
If we have an argument he will not talk to me for a couple of days and the most recent argument we had he called me some disgusting names and never came home and didn’t tell me where he was
I’m just coming to the end of my tether now we are meant to be getting married in July but I just keep thinking I don’t know if I can do this for the rest of my like he’s not always been like this he was loving once but the negativity is pulling me down now we also have an 8 year old son together and I worry both the kids are picking up on his bad mood.
I’m not sure if his mental health is suffering atm I have asked him but he won’t talk to me
I’m not sure where to go from here?