I really want to do the right thing and I thought here I would get direct advice.
Estranged from my darling daughter who has a grown up children. I adored her the moment she was born, but later became a single mom with two children so although I had several jobs they missed what their friends I had with little money, all ok now though. I remarried restarted my career but my children definitely lost out regarding holidays etc, both did very well at school and had good jobs, my d has wonderful life and is very happy. A life I could only dream of and she has cut off all family over the yearsI was the last to go, tried everything but she says I am not a nice person as I appear
and she really doesn’t like me, she just pretended to, she doesn’t like how I speak for one thing. I leave her alone as I want her happy and when I tried to apologise many times for being as I am it made her more determined. It weighs me down, I can’t push her to alter. I have never distanced myself from anyone and realise it must be a last step for anyone to do it.
Know she won’t change. How does anyone cope. I am hoping for some answers, I really don’t think she will change. . I have not got a relationship with my gc because I have been put on no contact.