My mother is a loud and dominating women. She's very critical and rude. She has lots of friends (but really bitches about them behind their back)
My father backs her up on everything even when she fell out with my father's favourite brother.
All my life she has told me 'such and such thinks your boring'. When I applied to m&s for a Saturday job she said they take on disabled workers. Unkind comment from either perspective
She's very racist and my sil is black. The last time she visited it got too much. Went too far. I busied myself and she left on a temper. The sad thing is my brother doesn't know why.
The criticising and anger never stops. She hasnt worked in 20 years. She's a size 26 to 28 yet shouts at me if I put a few pounds on. Or my hair is too dark. If I get dc new clothes they are too small 😒
My dc are too bright and will get bullied (just because I went part time to get more time with them and its worked)
No one in my family jas contacted me in nearly a month
I don't know how to move on.
Do I try and forgive her ?
My father hardly speaks to me now and we used to be close. She's the centre of attention. I am quiet compared to her. But tougher inside.