Hi my partner now ex partner was selfish person, he openly admitted he is crap with money. I started to save to move and I got to £2000 it was used for vet bills and other stuff. I'm trying to save again. The move would of been fundamental for my family due to loads of reason's.
My dog passed away so I got another one as I was down about not having a dog around. He wanted a dog so got another one also. He then came out with we will go halfa for the dogs and I agreed. So I insured the dog he didn't the other he brought two lots of food I did it every other time. He then came our with he couldn't afford to keep a dog so I had to get rid of her. Only then to find out he borrowed money to get himself a bike. He already had a car. Plus already admitted he couldn't afford a dog. I told him he was a selfish so and so.
He didn't put any into the moving pot at first only I did.
He barely buys things for his two kid's only when I kick off.
So point is I ended the relationship as to me he thought of his own wants and didn't think of his family who are struggling to move now.
What's everyone's views am I over reacting or am I right to get rid or a guy who really didn't support his children financially nor did he have any real goals or dreams for us as a family. As his only come back from buying a bike which he borrowed the money for was my dream has always been to have a bike.