What happens with mutual friends after a breakup?

[Chloeblue]

So after a breakup earlier this year, I haven't heard from mutual friends from an activity myself and my other half did with this group. I miss the people and am also avoiding places we all used to go and am feeling down about it today. I know it's probably normal when a couple break up?

Op did you try and contact them? It sounds a bit like you just disappeared and are now wondering why they're not in your life?

We kept it civil so they didn't choose sides so neither of us lost friends. We've known our friends for 20 years, they're like family. We never spoke about why we split to them either. Most have said there are 3 sides, his, mine and the truth.