Sorry for the long post. Trying to be fair in explaining.
So the other day after an evening at my in laws we arrived home, my husband drove. He parked the car on the drive and I took the car keys which had house keys attached and proceeded to open the front door. For context I use the car the most for school runs ect and my husband has a work van so I’ve just attached a set of keys to that for ease. My husband has his own keys which is were also in the compartment when I took them out. We were both sat in the front of the car when I took them. We have 2 kids he let one of them out who came inside and after a few mins I realised him and DD were still outside. I shouted out to say I had the car keys and he then came back inside. He was very annoyed and said why didn’t I tell him I took the car keys. I said ‘oh didn’t you see me pick them up’. He said no you should have told me, I didn’t see it as a big deal but as he had been looking for them for a few mins he was annoyed. He wanted an apology. I really didn’t see the big deal so didn’t apologise. Neither of us were really talking and so I brought it up the next day. He said I had been giving attitude and that if I had asked any of my friends they would say I was in the wrong. My response was they would probably all say you’ve totally overreacted. This made him even more angry and he said he had seen my true colours as I couldn’t admit I was wrong. I then apologised saying ‘if he felt I was in the wrong them I’m sorry’. He’s still really annoyed and now it’s been a few days and we aren’t really speaking. We say a few words RE the kids but that’s it. Am I missing something here as I feel this really isn’t a big deal?