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SIL always ask the price of things

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onlychildhamster · 08/11/2021 12:00

We bought her a bubble tea and a birthday present, a coat from Zara, which to be fair was 1 day late. She asked the price of both. She also asks the price of random things in our flat- the sofa throw , random meals we mention we had outside, my backpack (which is actually the most expensive thing I own other than our flat), our salaries etc.

It is a bit embarrassing cos her mum, my MIL is very thrifty and also on a low income. She doesn't have a job herself. For example, my MIL thinks a coat should be from ASDA and cost £20 max but in reality my DH spent like £120 on the coat

I sometimes put my foot down and just tell her I am not uncomfortable disclosing how much I spend on things. But the line of questioning is sometimes relentless. I don't really understand why she does this? My DH thinks its because she wants to have 'control' over things.

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Pantsomime · 10/11/2021 12:44

Just say you can’t remember but you could add you wouldn’t have bought it if you didn’t think it was good value. Or say you can’t remember but you’re sure she could look it up on line if she needed to find out ( she may be doing it out of habit if she is on a tight budget, she just shouldn’t say it out loud in conversation)

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