A friend of mine's sister has been in a relationship for a few months with a man I know of. I know that he has abused every partner he's ever had, it's not gossip, or rumours.
I can't warn the sister, I dont actually know her that well. I could ask my friend to look into Clares Law on her sister's behalf as she would know/be able to get the details needed to do it. But, would it be enough? I dont want to rock the boat unless the proof would be there.
This is what I know. He has never been convicted of any crime. I dont know if he's ever been arrested. I do know that at least three of his ex partners have reported him to the police for threatening behaviour, harrassment, having to get him removed from their home after kicking off, smashing things up etc.
Would these things even be on record? It spans about 20 years. My friend will believe me of course, but if she warns her sister with no evidence to back it up, it's likely her sister will cut contact with her as she practically worships the ground he walks on, I dont want to be the cause of that.