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Anyone else's man/ partner/ SO do this?

11 replies

doomedtoday · 03/11/2021 18:07

Mine likes every single post on social media. Included are women he used to date. What's his bloody story?
To add, it's all friends .. Men , women, groups etc and has majority male friends.
Would this be ok with you?
He is very public about us on sm. he tags me a good amount.

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Sirzy · 03/11/2021 18:14

If he does it for everyone it wouldn’t bother me at all it’s obviously just how he uses social media

doomedtoday · 03/11/2021 18:16

I guess.,, I suppose I like things that I actually like rather than for the sake of it. Would it bother you that some are women he dated in the past ?

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Pinkbonbon · 03/11/2021 18:18

Do you mean everyone who posts on his page? Or everyone who he sees posting anything. Of its the later I suppose I might worry he was a bit of an obsessive people pleaser... but apart from that I can't see a problem.

doomedtoday · 03/11/2021 18:29

Everyone who posts something

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GTAlogic · 03/11/2021 18:30

Dh has ex girlfriends in his fb, as well as ex female colleagues and some female friends and friends of friends. He likes and sometimes comments on their posts and it really doesn't bother me because he isn't doing anything wrong.

Sirzy · 03/11/2021 18:34

So your issue is actually that he is still friends with an ex?

That depends on so many things. I am still friends with an ex, it was all amicable and we have both happily moved on.

Personally I wokld be more concerned if their was secret contact rather than perfectly visible contact like you describe

doomedtoday · 03/11/2021 18:37

No secret contact that I'm aware of but I've never needed to use his phone.
He is quite public about me on sm so I expect that is proof enough that he isn't shady. Plus I feel that he is very committed to me.

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Sally872 · 03/11/2021 18:39

The more likes he gives the more he will get back. If he posts a lot and looks for likes that is probably why.

Pinkbonbon · 03/11/2021 18:49

Why do you need proof that he isn't shady?
Surely 'he isn't shady' is the default unless he has prior form for doing shady things?

category12 · 03/11/2021 18:49

If you trust him and think he's into you, fgs don't make this into an issue. It sounds like he's just liking pretty much everything he sees rather than specifically particular women or particular types of post? In which case, build a bridge and get over it.

doomedtoday · 03/11/2021 18:51

You are right! It irritates me and my anxiety levels are very high today.

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