I used to live abroad and had a relationship for couple of years with a totally unsuitable guy. We broke up and I moved on, moved back to UK and settled down, met Partner, have 2 kids etc
My ex has contacted me - very respectfully - he will be in my city for a week for work - he would like to meet up - partly to apologise for his behaviour during our relationship.
To be honest it's all water under the bridge and it's at least 10 years ago...! He actually did me a favour as we would never have been happy together long term. My dilemma is - is it ok to meet him and should I just explain all this to my Partner?