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What do I do?

4 replies

abcd124 · 31/10/2021 20:40

I left my partner - he was using drugs and messaging other women during his high on Facebook. I caught him out and I left. We share a DD and in believing he has changed we have spent time with him at the weekends and honestly as stupid as this may sound, I really thought change had finally happened.

This weekend I've found a crack pipe that's clearly been used whilst me and my DD have been here and more messages to women last night on his Facebook.

Do I finally just say "you've made it clear what your priorities are" and just be done?

I don't think I've got any fight in me anymore x

OP posts:
abcd124 · 31/10/2021 20:40

... it's so frustrating when during the day he is a completely normal, charming guy!

OP posts:
Skintywint · 31/10/2021 20:49

It's scary that you even need to ask Confused

WTFCanIDoAboutThis · 31/10/2021 20:52

If he's addicted then you are fighting a losing battle trying to rationalise his behaviour.

Pegsonstrings · 31/10/2021 20:55

Ok, what would you advise your daughter if she found herself in this situation? Listening to his words is a waste of time believe me I married one like this and it were the actions in the end and my children that made me get MY priorities right. Stop being talked into a life that isn’t going to cut it and start planning one that is healthy.

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