Hey,
So to cut a long story short.. my boyfriend had plans to go to an event in a club in Manchester with his friends this upcoming weekend. As this was our child free weekend, I also made arrangements to go out with some work colleagues as we've had a lot of stress at work recently. I've been so excited about it as it's not often I go out with my friends as all my free time is spent with my boyfriend.
A few days ago, my boyfriends friends all cancelled on him and decided to not to go to the event. Due to this, he invited me instead. I told him I'd already made prior arrangements but he became very unhappy with this. His words were "you should want to spend time with your boyfriend more than your friends". Whilst I agree this should be the case on most occasions, sometimes you need a break. Plus, we both made prior arrangements with our friends. I only got an invite because his friends cancelled on him.
Now he's due to go tomorrow but he's still giving me a tough time for not going as he thinks I'm 'up to no good' as I'm so 'desperate to go out with friends'.
Am I being reasonable for not going with him? He has 1 friend who has said he would go with him. Plus I can't just drop my plans because he's asked