Around 5 months ago I felt I had to end a relationship that was going nowhere. In short, we’d been together almost a year and he made zero effort to weave me into his life or weave into mine, properly. We were practically living together at the end but it would literally be dinner, bed, repeat. He had little interest in getting to know my parents, or me knowing his, as an example of many things! Anyway, it got more and more tense and eventually I said enough, this wasn’t fair, I didn’t want a teenage relationship etc. He didn’t resist. Seemed relieved in fact, though was tearful. I suggested we could try and talk things through and he was silent. So I left. Heard absolutely nothing since.
I was devastated that it was over. I had two months of darkness. I’d really thought he was the right one for me and loved him very much, which he knew.
Last night he text ‘hey how are you?’ I’m not with anyone new, though I am dating. Has anyone else had this? I feel really shaken by it.