My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. He’s dating someone and a few weeks back we started being more friendly, but now suddenly messaging me and wanting to get back together. He mislead me into thinking that they had broken up and he was not going to talk to her until tomorrow (Wednesday). On the Tuesday I found out he’s still with her because “he doesn’t want to be alone.”
I’ve gone from being hurt to feeling sorry for this lady. At least I know that he is dirt and it’s time to move on. Maybe when thing run their course and we are past our hurt things will be different but we’ve been together 9 years so there is a lot of history and trust issues. I am not blameless in our breakup but why is it so hard to just move on?! Social media doesn’t help.