My husband and I are in our late 30s and I am nearly 13 weeks pregnant with our first child conceived through a year of ivf treatment.
We have been married for 2 years, together for 4. To be honest we have been fighting for many years and it has definitely got worse over the last year or two. He’s said before that these fights will eventually end our marriage and this evening we had a fight. He said he had enough and wants a divorce. He said it quite matter of factly and said he felt a sense of relief. On the other hand I don’t want a divorce and want to keep working on the marriage. To be honest I do feel a sense of failure and am scared at the prospect of being alone and raising a child outside the happy family unit I had dreamt about. I’m scared about the stress and how it will affect the baby.
My questions are how do you know when it’s over? How do I cope when I feel like I just can’t? How will being pregnant change the process of divorce, if any? I feel so lost and upset.