I broke up with him and want him back... he’s not interested is he?

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I broke up with my boyfriend because I was feeling really insecure. It sounds stupid but I hated his social media use and so on. We’ve not been together that long.

Anyway I ended it and immediately regretted it. I told him quite personal things, like how I felt very ugly next to him and how his social media following showed that I was not really his type looks wise.

He replied like everyone assumes they will girls want me because of my looks, but I was speaking to you. And then he felt “50 50” about getting back together.

We were talking and he was just not really interacting. I said “are we done with the conversation?” He said well are you? Eventually he said that he didn’t want to continue the conversation as there was no point

There’s no chance of a reconciliation is there?

"Girls want me because of my looks?" How reassuring.
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His social media use will still annoy you if you get back together.

I would asume not unless he comes back looking interested in getting together again. Don’t even think of calling him again before he shows interest as the more that you push him the more put off of the idea he will get.

As painful as it is, please do try not to think much about but see this as a moment of reckoning. You need to find a way to improve how you feel about yourself, he liked you the way you were, but it is not easy to have a relationship when one is insecure. Having said thar, he shouldn’t have continued posting photos of you after you asked him to stop.

Pull back... You are coming over as desperate and needy... Not characteristics top off most men's lists.. You've told him you want to get back... Let him make a decision

Hi sorry op but it sounds like he's done.

Ime when someone says they are 50-50 they mean "I'm done, but feel free to massage my ego"

It's not clear whether you mean he's always on social media, or you don't like the content.

If something be was going back through my IG & getting insecure about it, yes, I'd find it too much and want to end it, even more so in the early days.
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