Would like some advice/suggestions please? STBXH left me in Jan saying he wasn’t in love with me anymore. Moved hundreds of miles away. We (maybe me more than him) tried to work on things, but he kept telling me he only saw us as friends. I’d had enough by the start of July when he was supposed to be coming to stay for the weekend as we’d decided to try again after getting closer, only for him to cancel 6 hours before he was due to arrive. Since then I’ve gone NC to heal and move on. I know I could never go from being a wife to basically a ‘friend’ when it suits him. Told him this, told him if he thought there was any chance he wanted to try again to say in July but he just said he couldn’t see us as any more than friends. So that was it for me-was so hurt he could be so disrespectful and like I didn’t matter. I truly loved him and miss him terribly. However I have a 13yr daughter and I want to set her a good example and don’t want to hurt again. I’ve picked myself up and generally feel good about myself and life again. Today I got a text saying ‘do you think we’ll ever speak again?’. Haven’t responded and tbh don’t know what to say. Part of me wants him to hurt even a tiny fraction of how I have, but that’s vindictive and not really me. Nor does it help. Should I just ignore? I can’t see how we could ever be friends -it’s just too raw and for me, trust is gone. I still have no idea why he left, and have got to a place where I’ve stopped trying to work it out. I really don’t want to get hurt again but on the other hand, if this is the start of him trying to apologise it might help me. What would you do? I’m really annoyed with myself how much it’s unsettled me since I got his message ☹️