Did you leave ur husband for another man and if so how it turned out

[novembeer]

Behalf of a friend - I was getting along fine in my marriage of ten years, or so I thought. Then bank out of the blue I met someone who turned my world upside down. I fell head over heels in love (or so I think, could it be lust) and he loves me, which I do believe.

One minute I can see myself being with om living happily and believing that love will conquer all but then other times I think how can I do this to my dh. Leave him and split our family. We don't have kids . I feel so so selfish that I am even considering splitting my my husband . If I stay with my husband will the feelings for om die eventually?? At the minute I cant have sex or touch my husband its so unfair me hurting him like this.

I never thought this would happen to me but I belive I love the om and he loves me.

I am in absolute turmoil over this.

I left - and am very happy many years later. My ex husband was devastated at the time, but he accepted it and we got a divorce. He moved on and found a really nice partner who he is still with 18 years later. I'd advise you to leave if you no longer have feelings for your husband, and see how it pans out. No point in staying if you've lost your attraction for him, it wouldn't be fair.

Leave your husband. You can be happy and your husband can find someone who loves him and wants him.

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I left. We didn't have kids together. Am now happily married to the OM and we have children together. My first marriage was clearly dying on its arse before the affair, and I was planning on leaving him anyway, so even if the affair had not worked out, I wouldn't have regretted leaving.