Feeling uneasy following separation

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Following separation from husband due to his adultery, has anyone experienced a sense of unease, like something is going on that you don't know about? I didn't feel this immediately, but a short time afterwards, after seeing him briefly, although I had seen him several times before and had not experienced any unease.

He was pleasant enough but his body language was guarded and watchful whereas before he just looked a bit sad and sheepish.

I just have a sense of imminent something . I can't shake it off.

Don't ignore your instincts. That said, you have just been exposed to a huge betrayal and therefore you may feel that you can't trust your instincts because 'surely you would have known' if someone that close to you had done something like that. That's how I felt anyway. The 'something' turned out to be a re-writing of history to justify his behaviour. It did take over a year for the unease to subside. Ancient ish history now but he gradually exposed himself for what he really was.