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OMG im crushing hard, girl is a mess.

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Tadmadruby · 20/10/2021 14:01

So.. a while ago i posted this insane thread about having a sexual feeling for someone i dont really know.

Recap, moved to new flat, saw a neighbour good few times going in and out, in the street etc.. never got my attention AT ALL, not my type, far from🤨. Was closing my window, he was on the phone just under my window and was having ago at someone/ arguing.. BAAM out of no where i was shaken, i dont even know or understand what is getting my attention exactly.

Few commented its called "thunderbolt" and clearly i was not the only one experiencing this odd sensation/situation.

Moving on to now, i dont see him quite often but when i do, i completely turn to someone else, i stumble, look awkward and can feel my knees go weak 😤 (against my own will i may add).
Something strange i noticed though, he never looks at me, never! Few times we would be literary brushing shoulders walking past each other and he would not as much as glance my way!
So i sensibly thought it means he is A) does not see me, not even had a nano second to think about me in anyway i have. B)did notice and making it clear he is not interested.
This also makes sense as we are strangers even if we see each other every other day. It also mean, i might have developed a crush on someone who i simply shouldn't.

Its wrong, i dont wanna obsess about this man, i dont wanna feel strange when i see him, i dont want to feel his presence and would like to get rid of this whatever i am feeling..

Weird thing is, he is NOT my type!!when i think why i feel like i want him i cant come with an answer.

OP posts:
Mosaic123 · 20/10/2021 14:03

Perhaps he has poor eyesight? He reminds you of someone in your past?

Tadmadruby · 20/10/2021 14:22

I think he sees well seeing how he drives.

I am not sure, i have ALWAYS liked and been with skinny, muscular and boy-ish looking men.

This guy is way too big! Tall, wide and not physically fit he ia just a big guy!
Face wise very unnoticeable, average!
But feel very delicious🙄

OP posts:
TheFoundations · 20/10/2021 17:35

How old are you?

You fancy your neighbour and are creating an internal drama about it. Nothing has actually happened.

You can't control who you find attractive. Nobody can. You just have to deal with it like a grown up.

Funnylittlefloozie · 20/10/2021 17:53

Maybe you could just get a hobby...

Or if he's single, ask him to go for a drink. Either of those options is dealing with the problem like an actual grown-up.

Yogawankonobi · 20/10/2021 17:56

Say hello

youvegottenminuteslynn · 20/10/2021 19:14

You fancy your neighbour and are creating an internal drama about it. Nothing has actually happened.

This, a bit OP! Chill!

Handsnotwands · 20/10/2021 19:30

So all you do actually know about him is he’s the kind of guy who gets in arguments. On the phone. I’d knock this one on the head

Sonaftersonafterson · 20/10/2021 22:16

I'd smile and say hi. Why the hell not!? He might be avoiding eye contact because he's nervous? You never know. A friendly smile and a "hey" is easy enough to do. Take a deep breath and get on with it woman! He might be the man of your dreams!! Grin

CodeMode · 20/10/2021 22:24

You fancy your neighbour and are creating an internal drama about it. Nothing has actually happened.

Glad I wasn’t the only one thinking this. You sound very young OP.

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