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Welcomeback21212 · 18/10/2021 08:05

My partner never kisses me during sex should I be worried?

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Littleants · 18/10/2021 08:25

How is your relationship generally? That’s a more realistic thing to focus on. Different people have different ways of having sex. If you don’t like it, do you say anything? What is your partner’s reaction?

Welcomeback21212 · 18/10/2021 09:15

Our relationship is good but no kisses since I've had a baby.

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Fireworksfly · 18/10/2021 09:45

What do you thnk has changed since you had a baby? Do you think he views you differently now you are a mother ? Seems strange to have stopped kissing you since you had your baby

Welcomeback21212 · 18/10/2021 11:21

Yeah I think he looks at me differently. He used to call me hot and sexy now he's totally different towards me

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Fireworksfly · 18/10/2021 11:30

Having a baby does change the dynamics of a reltionship and how we view sex. After I had a baby I just saw sex as mechanical and almost felt a bit ashamed to be sexual - like you my partner stopped the compliments which made me feel really strange as to what my role was in the relationship.

Welcomeback21212 · 18/10/2021 11:32

Yeah it's not nice us it. He looks at me differently like his eyes look different like no lust anymore.

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