Can't resist shit stirring about me.
It's been going on for over 20 years. I've backed off from her more than once because of it and she never seems to learn. She doesn't even really care, doesn't bother to contact me for years at a time until she sees me interacting with a mutual friend on social media and suddenly she's off again trying to put the boot in.
We were close a few times for many years and have a lot of history but as I say, I had to back off because of her constant troublemaking and it's almost like she doesn't want me to be friends with another friend of "hers" (we've all known each other a long time but she introduced us). Is it all about the limelight? She has a large group of "friends" and is very outgoing, i'm quiet and tend to stick to a few people.
I dont understand why she's like this and i'm on the verge of just deleting her and her family which I know sounds petty but i'm pretty much housebound so social media is the only way we keep in touch and the only way they see me interacting with anyone else. I'm not sure I feel comfortable with any of them looking at my social media if it's going to start her off again.
I really dont understand why she does it, she's in a very happy relationship, has a huge circle of friends etc. It's really hurtful because I was a good friend to her over the years and care about her very much, but I can't have someone in my life to hurt me over and over again when they keep gossiping and lying about me, especially when there's a good chance her stirring will affect my other friendship. It's ridiculous, we aren't in the playground!
Just wanted a rant I suppose, really annoyed. I've had a rough few years which she knows about and she still wont let up.