When the abuser moves on….

[createausernamee]

Met a girl in the summer, she’s moving in to the house that was meant to be our family home.

Meanwhile, I’ve not had a whiff of a man since we separated. Trying to keep going for the sake of my two little boys but it’s really hurting me.

If I could warn these ladies not to get involved I would. But they are adults and make their own choices but I still feel responsible is some way becuase I know they will be treated so badly further down the line. I don't have much in terms of finances, live in a small house etc but my god I have calmness and freedom from abuse and that is so liberating

@Fireworksfly yeah there’s a part of me that want to wade in and warn her but she’d never believe me at this stage (and it’s not my place).

I can remember when he loved bombed me, all the things he said and did. I wouldn’t have believed another woman then if I was told.