Hey been talking to this guy for a couple of months now, it’s the best “talking stage” relationship I’ve ever had, he seems so genuine and I’ve only ever heard good things about him. We have only been out a few times tho, if im out with my friends he always offers to pick me up. We have done the deed once. However that I feel like things aren’t right but I can’t tell if it’s just me being paranoid.
He still talks to me as normal but we haven’t been out in weeks. He never really initiates plans but does say he wants to see me. I don’t know if it’s just who he as a person like I think he’s very reserved but he’s never been really emotional or confrontational like guys I’ve talked to before, but then again all the guys I talked to before were f*boys.
He deffo has never seemed to have bad intentions with me always acted like a true gentleman never initiated anything sexual and I sometimes I just think he sees me as a friend. (Although I was told he was really interested in me months ago which is why i started messaging him)
Anyway, sometimes he’s really bad with texting and at first I thought he was just a bad textee. But now he’s been using the same excuses a couple of times I’ve got suspicious. Sometimes he says he’s had no signal but then I found out he was messaging his best friend at the same time he said to me he had no signal.
So fast forward to the other night I confronted him about this and I also told him I felt like I was wasting my time and it sucked because I really like him. He totally flipped and said he didn’t need this right now and didn’t like the thought of us talking about him behind his back. I responded by saying okay he didn’t need to be so rude to me I was just asking. We haven’t spoken since this last message, should I be the one or message him and apologise?or was this a good getaway for him because he wasn’t interested in me. I really do think he did like me and im so confused as to why he would give up on us thay easily , any advice?