Husband argues everyday about little little things?

[faithfulbird20]

I feel like I have to argue myself for everything and honestly it's draining. Is it his upbringing or are we just not compatible? Anyone with similar experiences?

Can you give us some examples? I sometimes think DP is like this but hard to know without knowing the sort of thing you’re talking about.

Is it a new development, due to some stress ? Hormones, age , work? Just throwing it out there... Have you thought of marriage counselling? Hard to advice without details about your relationship.

Have you brought it up with him that you feel this way?

There is a term for someone who constantly bickers or disagrees with everything you say. I was dating someone now an ex because of this as an example. I could say look at the beautiful full moon, would snap and have to point out no it is not. Could say the grass is green, would disagree, no matter what it was. It just wore me down, I told him what he was doing. He had issues from childhood but it was affecting me so finished it as did my head in and I am fairly patient. The term is Oppositional Confronation Style. Look it up and see if it is what your husband does.

It’s called being a wanker!

Haha at Longdistance, best comment of the day...agree with that too. A controlling miserable wanker at that... thanks for the giggle..

Mines the same - I avoid talking to him a lot because of it.

If he wants an argument don't give him one, just go 'oh, yeah, uum' in a bored tone. though it depends what it's about.